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Continuing Professional Development

We provide a variety of professional development opportunities. Some of these are available only to our members whilst others are available to other qualified psychotherapists and counsellors and we are committed to developing training provision aimed at giving an attachment orientation to other professionals.

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CONFERENCE AIM

Shame can be one of the most paralysing and withering of affects and relational experiences. It can be unbearably painful and corrosive, attacking one’s body and identity. It threatens to freeze the self and can have a significant and long lasting negative impact on the quality of attachment relationships. Shame seems to emerge as a consequence of neglect, critical and humiliating caregiving and other attachment traumas. In the context of our clients’ experience in the therapeutic relationship, the feeling of shame may relate to past or current events, actions and memories. In the absence of meaningful relationships and connections, shame can often trigger the terror of aloneness and dissolution.

John Bowlby, along with an ever expanding body of empirical research, has taught us that secure relationships are the bedrock of affect regulation and reflective functioning, creative exploration and robust well being. Understanding shame as a relational problem, it is here that the client can gradually learn to move away from the overwhelming cycle of unbearable shame affects.

This conference will bring together experts from across the world to discuss and explore different aspects of shame which can so often immobilise both the therapist and the client’s capacity to move on. Bringing together infant researchers, trauma experts, somatic interventions and clinical work, the aim of this conference is to explore and develop our understanding of the shameful deflations we encounter in the consulting room and will nurture new ways of relating.

Speakers: Dr Ulrich Schultz Venrath, Dr. Colwyn Trevarthen, Dr. Judith Solomon, Dr. Richard Chefetz, Dr. Aileen Allyene, Dr. Adriano Schimmenti, Victoria Settle.

Talk Titles

COLWYN TREVARTHEN

“Pride and Shame in Infancy”

ULRICH SCHULTZ-VENRATH

“Mentalizing Shame and Shamelessness in Groups”

JUDITH SOLOMON

“Shame as a Behavioural System: Links to Attachment, Defence, and Dysregulation”

RICHARD A. CHEFETZ

“Attackments: Subjugation, Shame, and the Attachment to Painful Affects & Objects”

AILEEN ALLEYNE

“Shame and Black Identity Wounding – the legacy of Internalised Oppression”

VICTORIA SETTLE

“Shame across the generations: working with a daughter of the holocaust”

ADRIANO SCHIMMENTI

“The aggressor within: Attachment trauma, segregated systems, and the double face of shame”

Friday
Registration: 5:30pm conclusion 9:00pm
Saturday
Registration: 9:00am conclusion 5pm.
10 CPD hours.
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Open Days

Psychotherapy Training Open Days

The Open Day provides an opportunity to visit our centre and meet staff  from the Bowlby Centre to find out more about our approach and the details of our training programme. The event is a facilitated workshop, with an overview of the curriculum, a clinical vignette and  a discussion about our approach and the theoretical influences that have informed our work. It is also an opportunity to meet some of those who may be training alongside you, should you decide to join us.

There is a charge of £50 for attendance.

Venue:
The Bowlby Centre
1 Highbury Crescent
London N5 1RN

Dates:

February 3rd 2018

Download the February Open Day brochure

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Clinical Forums

Clinical Forum – Fear of abandonment and angry protest: working with preoccupied clients

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Synopsis: This talk will highlight some of the challenges and difficulties of working with preoccupied clients and will propose specific aims and areas of therapeutic focus in the work.

About the speaker, Linda Cundy

trained at the Bowlby Centre in the 1990s and has a private therapy and supervision practice in North London. She has taught for more than twenty years and developed the Postgraduate Diploma in Attachment-Based Therapy at the Wimbledon Guild where she is Lead Tutor. Linda’s publications include a single authored book, Love in the Age of the Internet: Attachment in the Digital Era (Karnac, 2015) and an edited monograph, Anxiously Attached: Understanding and Working with Preoccupied Attachment (Karnac, 2017). A companion monograph, Attachment and the Defence Against Intimacy: Understanding and Working with Avoidant Attachment, Self-Hatred, and Shame is due to be published in 2018.

Saturday, 10 February 2018

Time:11.00am – 1.00pm (Registration 10.45)

Cost: £30 (Bowlby Centre members and students – free)

Venue: The Bowlby Centre 1 Highbury Crescent, London N5 1RN

Chair of Clinical Forum: Helene Everitt, member of the Bowlby Centre

CPD:2 hours – (CPD certificate provided)

Brochure –  10th February 2018

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Courses

Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice – February, March

COURSE FULL

Saturday 24th February and Sunday 25th February 2018

and Saturday 10th March and Sunday 11th March 2018

Cost: £580 Organisations, £540 Individuals

Seminars will include the following themes

• Introductions – our relationship to attachment theory.
• Attachment theory in context
• Separation, loss and mourning
• Patterns of attachment and their internal representation
• Secure • Dismissing • Preoccupied • Unresolved/disorganised • Not classifiable
• Evaluating adult attachment states of mind
• Internal working models
• Reflective functioning
• Intersubjectivity

Clinical work will consider the role of mourning, narrative, mutuality and recognition, affective attunement and cycles of rupture and repair in thetherapeutic process.

The objectives of this course is to introduce Attachment theory and deepen your understanding of it. It’s designed to be of practical value with implications for therapy and human relatedness.

The course is aimed for Counsellors, Psychotherapists, Psychologists, Psychiatrists and Social Workers.

“I was surprised how this course touched on all areas of my life… for me it has been the missing piece of the jigsaw I have been looking for and brings together many things…”

“Attachment theory is at the core of our being. This course has opened my eyes”
 
“I benefited greatly from this course both personally and professionally.”

Orit Badouk Epstein is a UKCP registered attachment based Psychoanalytic psychotherapist, a training supervisor and a training therapist. She trained at the Bowlby Centre, London where she is the Editor of the journal Attachment-New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis (published by Karnac books). She teaches Attachment theory and is the head of the planning group of the International Bowlby Memorial conference. She specialises in attachment theory and trauma and regularly writes and present papers on these topics. She runs a private practice and works relationally with individuals, couples and parents. Orit has a particular interest in working with individuals who have experienced extreme abuse and trauma and have displayed symptoms of dissociation. She is the co-author of the book “Ritual Abuse and Mind Control: The Manipulation of Attachment Needs” (Karnac Books), co-editor of the book “Terror within & without”, and is the co-editor of the ESTD (European Society for Trauma and Dissociation) newsletter where she regularly writes articles and film reviews.

Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice

Saturday 24th February and Sunday 25th February 2018

and Saturday 10th March and Sunday 11th March 2018

Cost: £580 Organisations, £540 Individuals

COURSE FULL

Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice Brochure

Hold Me Tight: Conversations for Connection – 21st and 22nd April 2018

An interactive Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy workshop

Creating resilience, emotional depth and trust in long term relationships

COURSE FULL

This is an interactive relational education programme for couples based on the book
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love’ by Dr. Sue Johnson, the
founder of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). This experiential workshop
comprises a weekend of deep engaging conversations that help couples develop more
openness, responsiveness and trust in each other that transforms long term
relationships.
Our aimYou will learn to understand and change the negative relational dance that keeps you
apart and causes conflict. Shape a more secure loving bond based on open intimate
dialogues. To begin a transformative healing experience and to bring back aliveness,
emotional intimacy, sexual connection and joy in your relationship.
This workshop is offered to Psychotherapists, Counsellors, Psychologists and their
partners: for a maximum of eight couples (sixteen participants) to ensure a safe space
for every couple to be supported by EFT therapists in connecting with each other. Each
couple will be given time and support to process their emotional responses to the
shared exercises and watch video clips of couples taking part in Hold Me Tight sessions
with Dr. Sue Johnson.

Date: 21st and 22nd April 2018
Time: 10.00am to 4.00pm
Cost:£500 per couple (Maximum 8 couples)

Angela Massucco is an Attachment based Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist UKCP and
trained at Bowlby Centre. She is an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist and holds
an Adv Dip in Couples & Psychosexual Therapy and a Psychosexual Certificate with
TCCR. She is also an Art Therapist BAAT. Her experience of EFT, and Diana Fosha
AEDP Training has impacted deeply personally and professionally with these
experiential models that believe emotional intimacy is at the core of a rich relationship.
Angela is in full time practice at Number 42, The Complete Psychotherapy Practice,
London Bridge.
Helene Igwebuike is a certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor
approved by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
(ICEEFT). Helene uses an integrative model incorporating elements of Person-centred,
Systemic Practice, Psychodynamic and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), while
specialising in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which focuses on accessing
emotions and facilitating heart-to-heart conversations that create a safe and secure
relationship. Helene’s practice is based in Enfield, King’s Cross and online Skype
sessions.

21st and 22nd April 2018
10.00am to 4.00pm
Cost:£500 per couple (maximun 8 couples)

COURSE FULL

Hold Me Tight – Conversations For Connection – pdf brochure

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Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice – June

Saturday 2nd June and Sunday 3rd June 2018

and Saturday 16th June and Sunday 17th June 2018

Cost: £580 Organisations, £540 Individuals

Seminars will include the following themes

• Introductions – our relationship to attachment theory.
• Attachment theory in context
• Separation, loss and mourning
• Patterns of attachment and their internal representation
• Secure • Dismissing • Preoccupied • Unresolved/disorganised • Not classifiable
• Evaluating adult attachment states of mind
• Internal working models
• Reflective functioning
• Intersubjectivity

Clinical work will consider the role of mourning, narrative, mutuality and recognition, affective attunement and cycles of rupture and repair in thetherapeutic process.

The objectives of this course is to introduce Attachment theory and deepen your understanding of it. It’s designed to be of practical value with implications for therapy and human relatedness.

The course is aimed for Counsellors, Psychotherapists, Psychologists, Psychiatrists and Social Workers.

“I was surprised how this course touched on all areas of my life… for me it has been the missing piece of the jigsaw I have been looking for and brings together many things…”

“Attachment theory is at the core of our being. This course has opened my eyes”
“I benefited greatly from this course both personally and professionally.”

Orit Badouk Epstein is a UKCP registered attachment based Psychoanalytic psychotherapist, a training supervisor and a training therapist. She trained at the Bowlby Centre, London where she is the Editor of the journal Attachment-New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis (published by Karnac books). She teaches Attachment theory and is the head of the planning group of the International Bowlby Memorial conference. She specialises in attachment theory and trauma and regularly writes and present papers on these topics. She runs a private practice and works relationally with individuals, couples and parents. Orit has a particular interest in working with individuals who have experienced extreme abuse and trauma and have displayed symptoms of dissociation. She is the co-author of the book “Ritual Abuse and Mind Control: The Manipulation of Attachment Needs” (Karnac Books), co-editor of the book “Terror within & without”, and is the co-editor of the ESTD (European Society for Trauma and Dissociation) newsletter where she regularly writes articles and film reviews.

Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice

Saturday 2nd June and Sunday 3rd June 2018

and Saturday 16th June and Sunday 17th June 2018

Cost: £580 Organisations, £540 Individuals

Attachment Theory in Clinical Practice Brochure

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